Her
own feelings were deeply stirred by the war, with so many relatives
and friends directly involved - so many who stood to lose all
they had. But the most passionate accounts she received came from
her eldest daughter, and she made no comment when the Crown Princess
praised her uncle's military bearing and delighted in his presence
on the winning side. Young Victoria was pleased to enjoy her uncle's
hospitality too in the months that followed: in her eyes Ernst
had made the right decision, and in the triumphant aftermath of
war even Alexandrine enjoyed a brief return to favour. 'We
are spending a very pleasant time here', the Crown Princess
wrote from Gotha on 15 January 1867. 'Dearest Aunt is so truly
kind - really her goodness is too touching and, I am happy to
say, I find her in better spirits than I have known her for a
long time! Uncle has given her dozens of smart gowns - and she
appears in a new one every day and is in very good looks.'21
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It
could never last. On the winning side Ernst was no longer a leader
and that sense of potential and possibility just drained away.
He had retained his duchy, but was increasingly lost in a whirl
of private amusements which earned only contempt from outside.
'The accounts of Uncle Ernest's conduct are too distressing',
Victoria wrote from Balmoral in the autumn of 1873. A week later
she told her daughter, 'What you say about Uncle E. alas! alas!
is what I have heard from but too many and is most painful and
humiliating. Really one cannot go to Coburg when Uncle is there.'22
While the world saw only womanising and extravagance, the last
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The "fatherless children" at Coburg in 1865.
(l. to r.) Leopold, Louise, Beatrice, Alice, the Prince of Wales,
Arthur, the Crown Princess, Alfred and Helena
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vehicles
left for Ernst's ideas were covertly sponsored articles in the
Coburg press, which became increasingly bitter against England.
In public and in private he had become a problem. 'Dear Uncle
Ernest does us all a great deal of harm by his odd ways and uncontrollable
tongue with his very lively imagination.'23
But
in November 1876 the Crown Princess was pleased to pass on a piece
of good news to her mother. 'A certain horrid Fraulein Grone
in whose power Uncle was, is on the eve of a marriage, and departure
from Coburg. What a good thing! May she never have a successor.
I am sure Uncle would be much happier, and Coburg would be another
place again.'24
Her mother probably knew better. Ernst was now a thoroughly disreputable
old roué who enjoyed the outrage provoked by his actions, while
his wife trotted loyally in his wake. He gossiped - and was usually
right. He put on weight. He was always in debt, though on paper
his wealth was immense. This became an issue for Victoria at the
end of 1882 when he decided to sell the collection of Old Master
prints which was (and still is) one of the treasures of the Veste
in Coburg. Alfred, as his heir, was in complete agreement, but
Prince Albert had secured the collection's future by negotiating
an agreement by which all male agnates of the Coburg line had
to agree to any proposed sale. The Queen had no direct say but
her other sons did, and she lost no time in making her views known
to them. The collection had been precious to her grandfather,
even in times of financial hardship, and to her husband: the collection
must not be touched - and she had her way.
She
was not best pleased with Ernst at this time anyway, because she
knew that he was writing his memoirs and had somehow been advised
of their contents. 'I think it monstrous to insinuate what
he does,' she said, 'and if he does anything to throw a wrong
light on beloved Papa I shall be obliged to publish letters he
will not like. It would be well he should know this.'25
The anxiety lasted. In June 1883 she told her daughter, 'That
book of Uncle E.'s must be stopped for if he contradicts what
Sir T. Martin wrote we will contradict him and bring forward proofs.'
A week later she was still worried: 'I wrote a line to say
I hope to hear from you that something has been done to stop Uncle
Ernest's book. As you truly say in your last letter of the 9th
he will only do himself more harm than he has already done - I
fear the scandal at Gotha is beyond everything.'26
Ernst
had found two successors to 'horrid Fraulein Grone', and was living
with them and Alexandrine in an improbable ménage which made the
couple a laughing-stock to all but their family. Much as she loved
Alexandrine, Victoria was appalled by her willingness to accept
the unacceptable. 'Uncle E.'s conduct is perfectly monstrous
and I must blame Aunt very much. They have not written to me yet
- but when they do I shall have to write very strongly.'27
Prince Alfred was due to give a ball in Coburg and decided to
refuse invitations to his uncle's ladies - an action his mother
applauded, though his normally judgmental sister seemed rather
sorry for Ernst. 'It is so difficult to defend poor Uncle Ernest,
who is his own enemy,' she told her mother, 'still I always
think that the family must not show up his faults and stand by
him as much as they can as alas! through his extraordinary ways
, he has so few friends.'28
It would not be long before she found her own friendship scorned,
in the cruellest possible way.
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